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What catches your eye first? - 2/16/2010 11:04:58 PM   
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When you met a girl, what's the first thing you notice? Do you take a second glance? Give the girl a chance to show you her personality before writing her off all together?

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RE: What catches your eye first? - 2/18/2010 7:30:00 PM   
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I'm probably a little different than most guys in that I tend to notice personality first. Before I even consider talking to a woman I will observe her for a bit to see how she treats other people. If she is nasty to others then I won't bother expending time approaching her no matter how she may treat me.

The reason is I spent many years getting treated badly by a variety of people at my old job and I learned that a pretty package doesn't always make a beautiful woman.
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RE: What catches your eye first? - 2/18/2010 11:01:27 PM   
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Although I'm not in the market, so to speak, its the eyes that catch my eye first.

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RE: What catches your eye first? - 2/19/2010 12:45:51 AM   
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When meeting or seeing someone the first time, I am attracted to long straight hair that reaches mid back. Long straight black hair with blue eyes is nearly irresistable. Unfortunately, the wrapping is only eye candy and really doesn't have that much value other than making something attractive. Sometimes it is an excellent cloak for something very ugly on the inside.

Someone who laughs alot is also attractive. Probably because I am an introvert and just not that funny and if I get someone to laugh that usually means I am completely oblivious to what I just did.

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RE: What catches your eye first? - 2/19/2010 9:43:37 AM   
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A pretty face first and foremost. Stamper has it right.
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RE: What catches your eye first? - 2/19/2010 11:35:27 AM   
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Her left hand, ring finger.

That is what I try to focus on even before I look at her for any extended period.
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RE: What catches your eye first? - 2/19/2010 4:19:06 PM   
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Her left hand, ring finger.


I suppose that the very first thing I look for too.
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RE: What catches your eye first? - 2/20/2010 2:00:00 AM   
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Would you believe her legs?

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RE: What catches your eye first? - 2/20/2010 7:48:03 PM   
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Would you believe her legs?



Me too

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RE: What catches your eye first? - 2/21/2010 7:28:21 PM   
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Looking for a pretty face and her smile, from there move down to the legs and feet if wearing sandals.

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RE: What catches your eye first? - 2/22/2010 1:34:45 PM   
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Hair, then face.
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RE: What catches your eye first? - 2/23/2010 9:33:46 AM   
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Would you believe her legs?

What if she's wearing pants?

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RE: What catches your eye first? - 2/27/2010 9:35:35 AM   
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Would you believe her legs?

What if she's wearing pants?


Then that makes her less attractive unless she is wearing something such as jeans.

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RE: What catches your eye first? - 2/27/2010 11:19:25 AM   
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I always look at the eyes first when I meet someone (male or female), for the eyse say a whole lot about the person.

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RE: What catches your eye first? - 2/28/2010 9:45:13 AM   
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it is interesting that what I notice first when I look at a woman, and what attracts me to her are rarely the same thing, so giving a girl a second chance is a funny way of putting it,

In my mind, I have a very very detailed manual of what makes a woman a woman & what makes a woman feminine. What I notice first is whatever grabs my eye,

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RE: What catches your eye first? - 3/1/2010 5:55:41 PM   
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At a glance, on the street: How she carries herself

Closer: Eyes

Second glance? I try to make a point not to, especially when she's dressed immodestly. Neck-and-up is a fine rule to live by.

Give a chance? Yeah, personality is long-lasting, but it's unfair to expect a guy to pursue a woman he's just not into. On the other hand, he shouldn't write girls off right away, since attraction can grow.
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RE: What catches your eye first? - 3/4/2010 11:42:05 AM   
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Hair, especially if it's red. Second is actually not a visual, it's her voice.

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RE: What catches your eye first? - 3/5/2010 11:04:25 AM   
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Can I plead the 5th?

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RE: What catches your eye first? - 3/5/2010 1:54:37 PM   
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You cannot plead anything. You are married.

You love all the things about your wife's look and catches your eyes no matter what, and hate all that she does not look like.

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RE: What catches your eye first? - 3/5/2010 9:53:51 PM   
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You cannot plead anything. You are married.

You love all the things about your wife's look and catches your eyes no matter what, and hate all that she does not look like.
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Can I plead the 5th?
LOL!!! Right you are!

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RE: What catches your eye first? - 3/6/2010 12:28:33 PM   
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smile and eyes
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RE: What catches your eye first? - 3/6/2010 5:06:04 PM   
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I love how everyone was a little different, but all kinda said the same thing :)

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RE: What catches your eye first? - 3/11/2010 8:12:47 PM   
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One 22 year old telling it HONESTLY....

I notice looks first. I'm pretty into the slender, athletic, blonde/blue types. If she looks like she's Swedish and could win a gold at women's gymnastics at the next summer olympics.....

BUT, it doesn't take long for me to notice other things. A genuine smile, a totally positive attitude, an affirming way, humility, caring.... those are huge and, yes, they are turn ons.



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RE: What catches your eye first? - 3/12/2010 4:54:25 AM   
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Her left hand, ring finger.

That is what I try to focus on even before I look at her for any extended period.

Also look for the ring "tan line"! Ha!
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RE: What catches your eye first? - 3/17/2010 3:16:24 PM   
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Other then the eyeballs (everybody looks at the eyes when they first meet someone). The teeth! No yellow, grungy, food-caked, tobacco stained, moldy, rotting teeth allowed! Yuk!
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